hmmm fang qi says 'dun HOPE for a better year, do something about it'

well, its been a terrible 2009.
hahaa. understatement.
i think i sort of went through depression.
thank goodness it wasnt serious enough..

but anyway... thankiews for the people who have been there.
im very tempted to say a few nasty things.
but i shall refrain.

i googled the meaning of 'take for granted'

take somebody for granted to not show that you are grateful to someone for helping you or that you are happy they are with you, often because they have helped you or been with you so often
(http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/take+for+granted)

i think at some pt in time.. we've all taken somebody for granted.
but some people are more ok with it, some people are more sensitive.
u might think that im taking u for granted, but i could be thinking u are taking me for granted instead
how do we let the other party know?
by talking?
do people jus accept other people opinions that easily?
theres bound to be arguments..

so i think.
this year. i better do more self-reflection
though i would like to think i always try my best to self-reflect every now and then
esp when someone tells me off about something.
but i wish OTHER people would self-reflect too..
i wish some people would give themselves some time, to sit down and think
how they are treating other people,
how they are 'taking things for granted' and
how they can improve further.
doesn need to treat the whole world better,
just to those WHO matter.

thats what i believe in.
those who matter.
maybe thats why sometimes i suffer.
cause BY RIGHT,
its VERY NORMAL and therefore, RIGHT, to take people who are closer to us for granted.
and somehow, the sociologist in me, jus hates all these norms.
imma deviant.
hahhahahaaa.

recently somebody said something, 'how can you thnk like this, u should be feelingg this and not feeling that way, you dun belong to this era, you cannot survive in this world one'
funny, ive been thinking like tt the whole year.

welll.. jiayou everyone! :D

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